I have been engaged in a serious relationship. I love my partner so much. We meet everyday. I don't want to miss him, or even a little thing about him. Our love is intense. We always find ourselves happy every day, at the end of each day. We've been together for one month. Too early to say this, but I know, our love is true. Everything is true.

But i got some questions I myself couldn't find the answers. So here's what i got.

Why in a relationship, someone has to love less? I mean, why do someone has to show so much pride? It is a "give-and-take relationship". Why can't the both of them be just fair with one another? Why can't that be?

Why in a relationship, someone has to give almost everything? Or shall I say, really everything? that isn't right. And again that's unfair! Why can't the two just give their best, without giving everything?

Why in a relationship, someone has to suffer the hurt? and the other was doing the hurt? unfair again! Yet we all know that EVERY THING can be done just by talking. Talking whole-heartedly and truly would be the best way not to hurt each other. Less anger, more love.

Why in a relationship, someone has to act like the foolest person ever? The other always gets mad, while the other always says sorry. That's being unfair.

Why in a relationship, someone has to act the superior? The other asks the partner to do this, to do that, not to do this, and not to do that. Perhaps that certain person needs a servant, and not a girlfriend/boyfriend. LOL.

Why in a relationship, someone has to be selfish? I hate when people think only of themselves. How about the others? How about their partner? If selfishness exists, then it isn't called LOVE.

Why in a relationship, when having quarrel, someone has to show so muuuch anger? the other was saying sorry, yet the other also refuses to hear what the partner is saying. The other doesn't know how to listen. And the other also does nothing but say sorry. yes, maybe he/she tries to explain, but it was useless. the other doesn't know how to listen.

Why is everything unfair? Everyone can be happy if they chose to. But why do somebody choose to let the other suffer? Why make it hard for the both of them? argh. Everything's complicated now. Maybe, love isn't just enough for the both of them to work. Maybe they need time, MORE effort, TRUST. Remember. Its a give-and-take relationship.